Day 21 : Write About Love

 Love.

Love. 

L-O-V-E.

Uhmmm,

love is not only about a feeling that we've got from the people that have the same feelings with us.

Well,

at first, i agree that love is about the feelings that we have for someone and, they do have the same feeling with us. 

I thought, love is about keeping them safe, keep them alive, watching them out so that they are at their finest, about being protective, and let them know that theres someone that'll always love them. 

I thought love was just it.

But, 

when i just broke up, 

i found out that love doesn't work if its only based on the feelings that you have for that person, and the otherwise.

But, it is about knowing the opposite's mental health, fine with their vision & outrageous life decision, their perspective on how they see the world or even things around them.

I thought love was just.. 

you know, 

about having the same feelings each other, then you can be a couple, and then just go with the relationship. But, it isn't that simple.

I think i'm failed bcs i have done tried my best in that way, but its not working.

Well, love is..

bringing that person to your family, to your world that's so different to your mind, to your soul. And if they can't accept ur soul, ur mind, ur family, ur loved ones before u met them, then u can't be in love with them. I don't know why. Bcs love is abt accepting who you are, and who you want to be.

Oh, 

not only accepting who we are!

But also accepting who we are built by, with who we are friends with, who we rely with, who we are speak with when we down & drwon before we have them, bcs we cant always tell them stories (perhaps).

Love

is about how they can understand us without telling them, 

how we found and seek for each others world and be there, 

and if u can't blend in with the opposite's world, then.. just don't force urself to be. Because that's hurts, for both of you.

To me, love isn't about changing urself for the better,

but its about being who you are and grow with them. 

It is never been someone else that can change you, but its you yourself.

Love is

found a person you can be with when ur being yourself :)

At least always remember one thing when you're fall in love,

"Dont ever lose yourself just to find a person that loves u. Because your true love will always be fine with whoever you are, after you. or before u."

Well 

in love,

you know your boundaries. You know who you are, and you will know who you've been looking for.

Your true love will comes to you,

and..

true love,

waits!

Cheers!<3